so the issue was in the language setting, the default language that the website is shown in must be set correctly:
[image: 1707139922249-screenshot-2024-02-05-at-14.29.10.png]
its not enough to just go to customize ā frontpage and set the translated page as a frontpage,
because the menu will be using the default language set in [image: 1707139972423-screenshot-2024-02-05-at-14.32.48.png]